The Story Behind the Baker
Kat Murray | Owner + Exquisite Baker
I was born in 1974 which was several decades too late; as I would have lived my best life as a 1950’s housewife – cooking, baking and sewing for my family, adorned in polka dot dresses and a string of pearls everyday. I have grown to become an eccentric, rockabilly mama who is living out her life in modern times, with liberal views built upon traditional roots, simplicity and sincerity.
I consider my baking an art form – continually honing my craft by tinkering with a flood of new ideas. My creations are always thoughtful and magical, crafted with precision and scrumptious to the very last crumb.
I know I have succeeded when my products are woven into another family’s traditions. A mother asks her child, “What kind of cake would you like for your birthday?” The child answers, “A cake made by Kat”… this is how I know I’ve succeeded.
I love to make things fun and magical – combining whimsy with tradition. Creating beautiful things that leave a lasting impression is the way I show love and in turn it is the way that I help my clients show their love.
The Roots of the Modern-Day Gingerbread Lady
MY MOTHER STARTED TRADITIONS I HOLD VERY DEAR TO MY HEART
People often call me “The Gingerbread Lady”. Make no mistake, I am NOT The Gingerbread Lady. I am the Gingerbread Lady’s Daughter, and proud to be so.
My mother was a home economics teacher so naturally baking was a huge part of family celebrations when I was a child, and a tradition I’ve carried through into my family. My mom would make sugar cookies with us for every holiday and enough for every child in each of our classes at school. On Valentine’s Day Mom would make heart-shaped cookies and we would spend the weekend icing each cookie in a different way. For St. Patrick’s Day we would make shamrocks for everybody followed by the start of spring, making flower shaped cookies for classmates and those that we loved.
Then there was Christmas – it was next level. Our house turned into a gingerbread wonderland! My Mom would make a gingerbread house for all of our family friends. She paid attention to detail: in the yard of the gingerbread houses there would be little gingerbread people to represent each member of the family. For my family’s house there was my mom and dad and 4 kids in the front yard. When we got engaged, our fiancé would appear in the front yard with us and when we moved out we would be removed from the front yard and put in the backyard to signify that we had moved out. As grandchildren were born, more and more family members were added to the yard. It was a beautiful tradition that my mother is renowned for.
Aside from the gingerbread houses that Mom would make, she would create hundreds upon hundreds of gingerbread men, package them in little baggies and tie them with that red and green Christmas ribbon that we’d curl with scissors. Everyone we knew would get a gingerbread man. Some of my fondest memories as a child were the weekends that were spent around the kitchen table decorating hundreds upon hundreds of gingerbread men with my siblings and parents. We had so many laughs. These rich childhood traditions that my Mother started in our family are traditions that I hold very dear to my heart.
Not Just Cakes!
ORIGIN OF THE NAME
In 2004 I lived in England and used to bake for my partner who would take treats into his workmates. In England they use the word ‘cake’ for most baked things! Cake is a cake, zucchini loaf is a cake, a gingerbread house is a cake….so everyone would ask him, “Did you bring Kat’s cakes with you today?” Over the years it just became a new word in our vocabulary – ‘katscakes’. But that is not when the business started, it’s just where the name came from!
